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我媽嫌我醜,我該怎麼辦?範例

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My Mom Resents Me Because I'm Ugly. What Should I Do With My Life?
我媽嫌我醜,我該怎麼辦?

I have zero self esteem because of this and I look at pretty girls and think why I wasn't born beautiful. My whole life she has told me I'm ugly and that she wished she had a beautiful child, I never had a dad around to tell me otherwise. She would tell me he left because he didn't want me.
就因爲這個,我完全沒有自信心。我常常看着漂亮的女孩子,然後想爲什麼我就沒有生得漂亮呢?我活這麼久,我媽一直都說我很醜,說她希望自己能有個好看的孩子。我並沒有父親,所以也不能從父親那得到不同的答案。如果問我媽,她會說我爸不要我所以走了。
獲得2.5k好評的回答@Syed Rizvi:

我媽嫌我醜,我該怎麼辦?

I'd rather have a beautiful heart than a beautiful face. I’m really sorry you feel ugly but you have to realise everyone is beautiful in there own ways. Ignorant people won't look passed your face they are not worth your time. Intelligent people will see you for who you are . Your traits , , hobbies and opinions so focus on those aspects of life make sure you get good at them.
我覺得心靈美比臉蛋美更重要,你覺得自己不美對此我很難過,但是每個人可以以自己的方式來表達美。那些以貌取人的人不值得你浪費時間。聰明人會從你的特點、愛好以及見解來判斷你這個人,而非外表。
獲得559好評的回答@Susannah Laker:

Asthetically “beautiful” people are in the minority, the majority of us are NOT beautiful. If you stop & think about it, just how many beauties do you actually know? You will probably come across not many, so if you fall into this category…. Welcome aboard from most of the human race.
以審美的標準來評判相貌出衆,那畢竟是少數,我們大部分人也不過相貌平平。你不必糾結此事,話說你又認識多少美女呢?你應該只是芸芸衆生中的一個,歡迎來到普通人的世界。
獲得933好評的回答@Cora West:

You do not deserve to be treated this way. It makes me want to cry. It is horrifying to hear that she could say that to you - and tell you that about your dad. I’m sure it is not true. She sounds extremely abusive. If you could talk to a counselor at school and tell them everything, that would be a good idea.
你不應該受到這種對待,這讓我抓狂,你媽媽會這樣說你真是讓人心寒,關於你爸的那段也是,我肯定你媽媽說的不是事實。她的這種行爲是妥妥的言語虐待,如果你把這些告訴學校的老師,這也不失爲一個好主意。
獲得1k好評的回答@Konstantinos Konstantinides:

Your mom is a big part of your life, but it is NOT your life. You are whatever you are and I am sure lots of people find you beautiful. Your mom needs therapy. Lots of therapy, because probably she believes you are the reason your dad left both of you (VERY doubtful). You can’t fix everything in the world, but move on. Find friends and family who love you, study, get a career, and get away from your poisonous mom.
你媽媽佔據你生命中的一大部分,但不是全部。你是你自己,我肯定有不少人覺得你是漂亮的。你的母親需要心理治療,而且是下猛料的那種,她居然認爲你父親離開你們娘倆是因爲你。(腦子有病)。你不可能彌合所有關係,但是你的生活還是不斷向前的。身邊總有其他愛你的親朋好友,努力學習,找份工作,離開你惡毒的母親。
獲得658好評的回答@Dominic Dannies:

99 % of the people are grumpy,sad, moody or experience even depressing thoughts on a permanent level. Why ?Because they have two self-destructive thoughts which circulate in infinte patterns :I am too … (fat, stupid, ugly …)I have to …Don’t mind other people’s People telling bad stuff about me the only thing i do is giving them a tissue …What devastating life would it be spending your whole life trying to please everybody. It’s your Life.
世界上百分之99的人都暴躁,沮喪,性情多變,甚至想要自殺。爲什麼呢?這種自暴自棄的想法多源於:我太胖了、笨了、太醜,所以我想。。。別人說啥關你毛事。如果別人給我訴苦,我只會給別人遞上紙巾,憑什麼你要用自己的時間生命去迎合別人,這樣的人生太操蛋了。你的人生要自己主宰。
獲得757好評的回答@Joyce Frankel:

As you get older you will understand that it does not take a beautiful face to be very attractive and appealing. That comes from self-confidence, the understanding that you are someone unique
等你大一點的時候你就會明白,讓人着迷的不會是一張漂亮的臉蛋兒。而是你的自信滿滿,無可替代。
獲得147好評的回答@Matt Thurlow-Fox:

Ok firstly half your looks come from ndly my speculation is that she's unhappy with her life and blaming you instead of dly, if she can't do her job as a mother, why do you believe she's capable of correctly judging looks? Fourthly, I absolutely promise that being beautiful wouldn't make you long-term happy.
首先你的長相一半是遺傳你的母親,第二我認爲她把自己命運的不順發泄在你的頭上。再次,如果她連自己母親的職責都做不好,那她憑什麼對你的長相做出正確的判斷。第四,我保證長得好看也不代表你能一直快樂。