情感美文：母親永遠成不了父親

作爲一個母親，我可以爲我的孩子們做許多事情，但是不管我怎樣努力——我永遠成爲不了他們的父親。下面是本站小編整理的情感美文，歡迎大家閱讀!

　　A father's job is unique.

If parents had job descriptions mine would read:organize bills, playmates, laundry, meals, laundry,carpool1, laundry, snacks, outings and shopping,and laundry.

The only thing on my husband's description wouldbe the word “fun” written in big red letters along thetop. Although he is a selfless caregiver and provider,our children think of him more as a combination ofa jungle gym2 and bozo3 and clown.

Our parenting styles compliment each other. His style is a nonstop adventure where no onehas to worry about washing their hands, eating vegetables, or getting cavities4. My style issimilar to Mussolini5. I'm too busy worrying to be fun. Besides, every time I try, I amconstantly outdone by my husband.

I bought my children bubble gum flavored toothpaste and I taught them how to brush theirteeth in tiny circles so they wouldn't get cavities. They thought it was neat until my husbandtaught them how to rinse6 by spitting out water between their two front teeth like a fountain.

I took the children on a walk in the woods and, after two hours, I managed to corral7 a slowladybug8 into my son's insect cage. I was “cool” until their father came home, spent twominutes in the backyard, and captured a beetle the size of a Chihuahua9.

I try to tell myself I am a good parent even if my husband does things I can't do. I can makesure my children are safe, warm, and dry. I'll stand in line for five hours so the children can seeSanta at the mall ?? or be first in line to see the latest Disney movie. But I can't wire the VCR1so my children can watch their favorite video.

I can carry my children in my arms when they are tired, tuck them into bed, and kiss themgoodnight. But I can't flip them upside down so they can walk on the ceiling or prop them onmy shoulders so they can see the moths flying inside of the light fixture2.

I can take them to doctor appointments, scout meetings, or field trips to the aquarium3, but I'llnever go into the wilderness, skewer4 a worm on a hook, reel in5 a fish, and cook it over anopen flame on a piece of tin foil6.

I'll even sit in the first row of every Little League game and cheer until my throat is sore and mytonsils7 are raw8, but I'll never teach my son how to hit a home run9 or slide into first base10.

As a mother I can do a lot of things for my children, but no matter how hard I try I can neverbe their father.

　　當爸是件無人能替代的活兒。

如果爲人父母有職務簡述的話，我的“職務簡述”將會包括如下內容：管理賬單和孩子們的玩耍同伴、洗衣、做飯、洗衣、安排與人合夥用車、洗衣、準備小吃、安排短途旅遊、購物、洗衣。

我先生的“職務簡述”是在上端用紅色寫出的兩個大字——“樂子”。儘管他無私地給予孩子們百般關愛，盡其所能爲他們提供所需，我們的孩子們更多的時候還是把他看作攀緣遊戲架、大傻瓜和小丑的三合一。

我們倆爲人父母的風格是互補的。他的風格是持續不斷的探險，在這過程中，沒有人需要操心孩子是不是洗手了，是不是吃蔬菜了，或者會不會長蛀牙。我的風格則類似墨索里尼的執政風格。我太忙了，爲這操心，爲那操心，哪裏顧得上找什麼樂子。再者，每次我試圖逗孩子們開心，我總是被我先生比下去。

我給孩子們買來帶泡泡糖香味的牙膏，教他們如何用牙刷轉圈兒刷牙以免得蛀牙。他們認爲那樣刷挺好玩，直到有一天我先生教他們如何漱口——從兩顆門牙間把水噴出來。他們發現這才叫好玩。

我帶孩子們到小樹林裏去散步，兩個小時後，我好不容易纔逮住一個遲鈍的瓢蟲放進我兒子的蟲籠裏。在他們眼裏我是夠“酷”的，直到他們的父親回家，在後院裏只花了兩分鐘，便捕獲了一隻有奇瓦瓦小狗那麼大的甲蟲!

我勸慰自己我是個好媽媽，儘管我先生能做的事情我做不了。我可以確保我的孩子們是安全的、暖和的、乾乾爽爽的。我可以排隊等5個小時，讓孩子們在大商場裏看到聖誕老人——或者第一個排隊讓孩子們看最新的迪斯尼影片。但是我不會給錄像機接上電線，好讓孩子們看他們喜歡的錄像。

當孩子玩累時，我可以把他們抱到牀上，親吻他們，送他們進入夢鄉。但是我無法讓他們頭衝下，那樣他們可以腳踏天花板漫步;或者把他們扛在我的肩膀上，讓他們看飛蛾如何在燈具裏飛舞。

我可以帶他們去看醫生，參加童子軍集會，或者帶他們去參觀水族館，但是我永遠也不會進入荒郊野地，在魚鉤上掛上蟲餌，釣上一條魚，然後把魚用錫紙包起來在明火上烤着吃。

我甚至可以出席每一場少年棒球聯合會的比賽，坐在第一排吶喊助威，直到我的嗓子喊疼了，我的扁桃體發炎了，但是我永遠無法教我的兒子如何打一個本壘打或者如何巧妙進入一壘的位置。

作爲一個母親，我可以爲我的孩子們做許多事情，但是不管我怎樣努力——我永遠成爲不了他們的父親。