30歲之前要懂得30個人生道理(3)
can’t take things too personally. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.
21.做事不要以自我爲中心。人們做事不是爲了你，而是爲了他們自己。
ings change, people change, and time keeps rolling. You can hold on to past mistakes or you can create your own happiness. A smile is a choice, not a miracle. True happiness comes from within. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.
22.情會變，人會變，時間不變。你是選擇沉溺於過去的錯誤之中還是創造自己的幸福？微笑是選擇，不是奇蹟。真正的幸福是由內而外的。不要以爲會有某個人某件事來給你幸福。
’s much harder to change the length of your life than it is to change the depth of it.
23.改變生命的長度比改變生命的深度要難得多。
end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
24.最終，你後悔“沒做”的事情要遠遠多於你“做過”的事情。
you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
25.當你不再追逐錯誤的事情，就等於給了正確的事情一個追上你的機會。
of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.
26.人生一大難事就是做自己，因爲這個世界總讓你變得和別人一樣。
y the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.
27.享受那些小事情。總有一天當你暮然回首，你會發現，正是那些小事纔是真正的大事。
ne can make a difference. Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
28.人人都能改變世界。讓一個人微笑就能改變世界，即使改變的不是全世界，也是一個人的世界。
ything is a life lesson. Everyone you meet, everything you encounter, etc. They’re all part of the learning experience we call ‘life.’ Never forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your way. If you don’t get a job that you wanted or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means something better is out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it.
29.一切都是生活的課程。每一個你遇到的人，每一件你遇到的事，這些生活經歷共同組成了我們稱之爲“生命”的東西。不要忘記這些生活的課程，尤其在遭遇逆境的時候。如果你找不到心儀的工作，或者感情出現了問題，這隻能說明前面還有更好的在等你。而你剛剛學會的就是邁出第一步。
rdless of how filthy your past has been, your future is still spotless. Don’t start your day with the broken pieces of yesterday. Every day is a fresh start. Each day is a new beginning. Every morning we wake up is the first day of the rest of our life.
30.即使你的過去是一團亂麻，你的未來也是一塵不染的。不要帶着昨日的碎片來開始新的一天。每一天都是新的開始。每天早上醒來，又是生活的第一天。
