雙語閱讀美文：積極和消極的人之間的區別

摘錄：你知道積極和消極的人之間有什麼區別嗎？積極的人受到別人的成功的鼓勵,他們看到那些非常優秀的人會問自己,“我能向他們學習什麼呢?“消極的人嫉妒甚至爲到他人的成功感到威脅。消極的人,當別人成功,這意味着他們是失敗的。

1. “Failure is part of learning.”

positive people view failure as an opportunity to learn and get better. They understand that failure is an event, and doesn’t define who they are. negative people are emotionally disabled by failure because they allow it to define who they are. They fail to understand that it’s part of the learning and growing process.

“失敗是學習的一部分。”

積極的人認爲失敗是一個學習和變得更好的機會。他們明白,失敗是一個事件,不會以失敗決定他們是誰。消極的人是感情失敗的殘疾人,因爲他們允許它來決定他們是誰。他們無法理解,這是學習和成長過程的一部分。

2. “I can do hard things.”

“我可以做困難的事情。”

Positive people love to be challenged. They understand that there is no growth without struggle. Positive people embrace difficulty, and look for ways to overcome them. Negative people love the easy road. Because obstacles increase the likelihood of failure, they try to avoid them like the plague. To negative people, hard times don’t make you, they break you.

積極的人喜歡被挑戰。他們明白, 沒有鬥爭就沒有增長。積極的人擁抱困難,想方設法克服它們。消極的人喜歡容易的路走。因爲障礙增加失敗的可能性,他們儘量避免像瘟疫一樣。對於消極的人,困難時期不會成就你,他們削弱你。

3. “I still have a lot to learn.”

“我仍然還有很多東西要學。”

Positive people love to learn. They understand information evolves, and what used to work 10-years ago, might not be effective today. Negative people believe they know it all, and are less likely to welcome new information if it contradicts what they believe. They care less about what’s right, and more about who’s right.

積極的人喜歡學習。他們瞭解信息的發展,和今天比起來, 10年以前可能不會那麼有效率。消極的人認爲他們知道這一切,如果他們相信的東西與新信息相矛盾他們不太歡迎新信息。他們不太關心什麼是對的,更多關於誰是對的。

4. “She is inspiring!”

“她是鼓舞人心的!”

Positive people are inspired by the success of others, they look at those who are excelling and ask themselves the question, “What can I learn from them?” Negative people become jealous and threatened by the success of others. To negative people, when others succeed it means they are failing.

積極的人受到別人的成功的鼓勵,他們看到那些非常優秀的人會問自己,“我能向他們學習什麼呢?“消極的人嫉妒甚至爲到他人的成功感到威脅。消極的人,當別人成功,這意味着他們是失敗的。

5. “What can I do better?”

“我怎麼才能做得更好?”

Positive people embrace feedback. Because they are always striving to get better, they are open to learn anything that will enhance their skill set. Negative people get offended when they receive correction or feedback. Instead of seeing it as means to improve, they interpret feedback as a sign of their incompetence.

積極的人接受反饋。因爲他們總是努力變得更好,他們願意學習,提高他們的技能。消極的人會生氣當他們收到糾正或反饋。而不是將其視爲改善手段,他們解釋反饋是他們無能的標誌。

6. “Let’s go big!”

“我們實現大夢想!”

A positive person isn’t afraid to swing for the fences because they don’t fear striking out. A negative person not only thinks small, but they also try to convince others that their dreams and aspirations are too big.

一個積極的人不怕打全壘,因爲他們不害怕打擊。一個消極的人不僅認爲機會渺茫,但他們還試圖說服別人,他們的夢想和抱負太大了。

7. “Have you heard about [insert name]?”

“你聽說過(插入的名字)嗎?”

Positive people build others up when they aren’t around. Negative people tear people down to make themselves feel good.

積極的人當別人不在的時候讚美別人。消極的人讓別人流眼淚來讓自己感覺良好。