他即將甩掉你的跡象
1. He comes first
1.他把自己放在第一位This has nothing to do with sex, but the need for one another sexually will also have begun to dry up. No, what I am talking about here is his complete and utter lack for what is good for you, what you want and why. When a man truly cares, he will actually make you a top priority and be concerned with your thoughts and feelings. When he starts to pull back from compromising, you know something is up.
這與性無關，但是對另一半的性需求也會開始枯竭。額，我在這裏想說的是，他的那種完全徹底地對你的利益不管不顧，好不關心你想要的和你的原因。當一個男人真正關心你的時候，他實際上會將你放在第一位，而且會關心你的想法和感覺。當他開始爲自己的妥協而反悔的時候，你就知道你們的感情快到頭了。2. Blasé
2.無動於衷
Something just…does not feel right. Your emotions towards one another seem to be in a constant state of "meh." No matter what you say, you can't ever elicit a response. He will show virtually no interest in your family, friends, social life, or work. This is the exact opposite of what happens when people want to build a stronger relationship. When he becomes blasé and noncommittal, it is time to move on.
有些事就是……就是感覺不對勁兒。你的感情對於另一個人似乎就一直是一種"無聊"的狀態。無論你說什麼，你總是得不到任何迴應。他幾乎對你的家人，朋友，社會生活或工作毫無興趣。這與一個人想要建立更緊密的關係的時候，發生的事情，完全相反。當他變得無動於衷而且含糊其辭的時候，那就是時候分手了。
3. No calls, no texts
3.沒有電話，沒有短信Remember when he would text you good morning and good night? Say goodbye to those days. Now, you are practically praying to the phone gods to deliver a message from one high so you can say "hallelujah, he does love me!" Sadly, your boyfriend stopped caring about you, so now the most you are going to get in response to your thought out message is the lackluster "k."
還記得他曾經會給你發短信說早上好和晚安嗎？告別那些日子吧。現在，你實際上是在祈禱電話上帝給你一個來自天空的消息，這樣你就能說"哈利路亞，他還是愛我的！"可悲的是，你的男朋友已經不再關心你了，所以現在你最想得到的答案是你的思想消息所缺乏的"k"。4. Bickering abound
4.總是爭吵You are going to have more bad days than good ones with one another. It will seem like everything stems an argument that leaves you two pouting on opposite ends of the couch. However, instead of having a full-on confrontation, he will literally turn the other way, shutting himself away from you. Talking things through has stopped. Healthy discussion, although heated, is over.
你與另一半相處的壞日子會多於好日子了。似乎一切都會引起爭吵，然後你們兩個人會噘着嘴背對着坐在沙發的兩端。然而，如果不完全對峙的話，他會大膽採用另一種方式，讓自己完全遠離你。你們已經沒有可以討論的事情了。健康的談話，雖然很激烈，但是也結束了。
