你的伴侶已不再愛你的五大跡象
When you love someone and they love you back, the high is unbeatable. You could spend all day together, can't get enough of each other, and find yourself saying and doing things you swore you would never do.
當你對某人情意綿綿，他們也對你做出迴應之時，熱戀便會堅如堡壘。你們會一整天待在一起，毫不膩厭對方，並且還會發現自己說一些和做一些你曾發誓從來都不會去幹的事情。But when things start to change, and you're no longer sure if your partner is still in love with you, the feelings you have for them can begin to feel like a burden.
但是，當事情出現變化，你不再確定你的伴侶是否還對你心存愛意之時，你對他們的感情便開始感覺成爲一種負擔。Before you make emotional claims or push your partner away, check and see if the following changes are happening in your relationship.
在你宣泄情緒或者是劈腿之前，來檢查看看如下的變化是否在你們的關係當中正在上演。
go MIA
1.玩失蹤If you used to text your partner throughout the day and rarely spent an evening without them, you'll notice when they start replying to your messages an hour later with short, to-the-point responses and make up excuses for why they can't hang out tonight.
如果你過去經常給你的伴侶全天候地發信息，很少會一個人過夜，你就會注意到當他們開始在一個小時之後回覆你一些簡明扼要的信息，且編造理由解釋爲什麼今晚不能陪你。They may blame it on a busy work week or the need for alone time, but if they're head-over-heels in love with you the truth is that they'd make time to call, text, and spend time with you — even on the busiest of days.
他們可能會說這周工作很忙，或者是需要獨處的時間，但是如果他們對你一心一意，事情就會是他們擠出時間給你打電話、發短信、與你共度時光——即便是在最繁忙的日子裏。If your partner starts to go MIA regularly, it may be a sign that they're trying to distance themselves from the relationship.
如果你的伴侶開始經常玩失蹤，那麼這就是他們試圖與你劃清關係的信號。of the future stops
2.不願談及未來When you're a couple in love, you'll spend hours daydreaming together, imagining what life will be like once you finish law school or how you want to celebrate the holidays.
當你們還是一對戀愛中的情侶之時，你們就會花上數個小時在一起幻想，想象當你們從法學院畢業會過上怎樣的生活，或者是想要如何度過假期。You may even delve into big events like where you want to settle down, how many kids you want, and what your wedding would be like.
你們甚至還有可能鑽研一些大事，比如：去哪兒定居，生多少個小孩，婚禮會是怎樣的。Talk of the future is common when you're infatuated and in love, but when your partner starts avoiding the topic out of nowhere, you may have reason to worry.
談及未來是迷失在戀愛中的情侶的普遍現象，但是當你的伴侶開始對這類話題避而不談之時，你就有理由去擔心了。If they no longer see you in their future, they'll try to avoid the topic as talking about it will seem hollow and pointless.
如果他們在未來不會看到你，他們就會試圖避免這類話題，因爲談論這些看起來太空洞也沒多大意義了。
't care enough to fight
3.不在意爭吵Many people see constant fighting as a sign that love is lost, but the true sign of dying love is when your partner doesn't care enough to fight.
很多人覺得經常吵架是愛已不在的標誌，但是逝去的愛情真正的標誌是你伴侶不再在意爭吵。ical contact declines
4.肢體接觸減少When your partner has moved on emotionally, you'll notice a change in your physical relationship.
當你的伴侶對你的感情增加，你就會注意到你們的肢體關係發生的一個變化。Not only will your sex life die out, but he or she may avoid cuddling after sex and foreplay. The changes may also show up in the way they treat you in public.
你們的性生活不僅會消失，他（她）在性愛、前戲之後都有可能會避免擁抱。這種變化還會出現在他們在公共場合對待你的方式之中。icking takes over
5.對你挑刺When love is lost so is the infatuation. They may suddenly be disgusted by the very things they used to find endearing.
當愛情已不再，迷戀也就蕩然無存。他們可能會突然覺得他們曾經認爲十分討人喜歡的事物很噁心。Maybe they thought the way you sneezed was "adorable," until one day your partner claims it is annoyingly loud.
也許他們以前認爲你打噴嚏的方式"十分可愛"，直到有一天會覺得這是十分惱人的噪聲。If your partner starts nitpicking everything about you, it may be a sign that they're falling out of love with you.
如果你的伴侶開始對你的一切挑刺，這可能就是他們不再愛你的一個標誌。
