不要將你自己與他的新女友作比較
1.I have been there too
1.我也曾這樣做過I know what I am talking about. I have been there more times in my life than I would like to ever admit. And once social media blew up into every aspect of our lives, you better believe I was using it to check things out. Before that, my best friend and I would drive by and spy and make prank calls from landlines. Those were the days!
我知道自己在說什麼。我曾多次這樣做過，然而，我並不想承認這一點。而且一旦社交媒體滲透到你生活的方方面面，你最好相信我也曾用社交網絡來弄清楚這些事情。在那之前，我最好的朋友和我會開車經過，然後監視他們，還會打惡作劇電話。這些日子已經是過去了！But I am here to tell you there is life after him and that you need to cease and desist immediately with comparing yourself to the new girlfriend that is now in every Instagram and Facebook photo he ever posts. Please hear my plea.
但是我在這兒要告訴你的就是，你的生活除了他，還有其他的內容，你現在需要停止，立即斷了與他現在的新女朋友作比較的念頭，而他發佈的所有圖片分享和臉書照片中，到處都是他新女朋友的身影。希望你能聽取我的忠告。
obviously has worthy qualities
2.她顯然有好的品質You can pick her apart and make fun of her clothes, her nail polish colors, how she styles her hair, and anything you wish, but that is catty and you know it. She has got some kind of redeeming quality to have attracted your ex and more than likely, she probably has plenty of similarities to you.
你可以大肆攻擊她，取消她的衣服，指甲油顏色，髮型以及任何你想攻擊的地方，但是這很陰險，而且你心知肚明。她確實有某種補償性的品質吸引了你的前男友，而且很可能，她與你有很多相似之處。is not the enemy
3.她不是敵人You can sit there and hate her for all that she has, including him. Or you can realize that your ex and you are over and he has moved on. And you should try to move on too. In time, you will thank her because you will absolutely find someone better.
你可以坐在那兒，討厭她的一切，也包括你的前男友。或者你能意識到你的前男友和你的感情已經結束了，而且他現在已經開始新的戀情了。你也應該試着繼續向前。隨着時間流逝，你或許會感謝她，因爲你絕對會找到更好的伴侶。are only hurting yourself
4.你只是在傷害自己By obsessing over your ex and his new love, you are just deepening the wound and prolonging your healing. We never know what the future holds either. The worst breakup I ever had led to me making terrible boyfriend choices beyond that.
一直生活在你的前男友和她的新歡的困擾之下，你只會加深自己的傷口，延長傷口癒合的時間。我們永遠不知道未來會是怎樣的。我曾經歷的最壞的一次分手，讓我賭氣選擇了比前男友還壞的男朋友。
