情侶公共場所牽手好處多

Kissing,stroking and wild embraces are common enough, but now the quiet,romantic gesture of Holding hands in public is a final frontier formany young couples in the West-even though, traditionally it wasthe first step towards intimacy。

親吻、愛撫和熱情的擁抱雖很常見，但如今，安靜、浪漫的牽手卻成了很多西方年輕人在公共場所的終極邊界——雖然這在傳統上不過是親暱行爲的第一步。

Power coupleson the world stage have taken to handholding as a sign of equalityand commitment. The Obamas are often snapped hand-in-hand. UK PrimeMinister Gordon Brown and his wife parade with fingers Nicolas Sarkozy and wife Carla Bruni are notorious for their public affection。

世界大舞臺上的權貴夫婦們已將握手視爲平等、承諾的標誌。奧巴馬伕婦照相時總是兩手緊握，英國首相戈登·布朗夫婦外出時也總是十指緊扣，法國總統尼古拉斯·薩科奇和妻子卡拉·布魯尼更因二人在公共場合的親暱舉動而招致不少非議。

That very fact--that it's a simple but powerful statement of commitment--isexactly what deters many young people from linkinghands。

然而，正是這個簡單卻強大的承諾讓衆多年輕人對牽手望而卻步。

There is nopublic display of affection more intimate between two people than handholding, writes New York bachelor Jozen, on his blog. "Holdinghands is the ultimate sign that two people are not only together,but happily so. Couples kiss madly, hug madly. But hold handsmadly? Oh no, they don't do that."

紐約單身漢Jozen曾在博客中寫道：“所有公共場合親密行爲中，兩人間最親密的行爲莫過於牽手了。牽手不僅宣告兩人在一起的事實，還將兩人的幸福一併傳達出來。情侶們會瘋狂地親吻、擁抱。但他們會瘋狂地牽手麼？答案當然是不會。”

Public Displayof Affection is so common and varied that it's earned its ownacronym, the PDA。

公共場合親密行爲很常見，也很多樣化。它已經擁有了自己的首字母縮略詞——PDA。

I was recentlyin London sharing a coffee with my uncle, who's in his 50s. When wewent to leave a teenage couple was wildly embracing and kissing inthe doorway in front of us. "If they really loved each other theywouldn't feel the need to do that," he muttereddisapprovingly。

不久前，我和50多歲的叔叔在倫敦喝咖啡。臨走時，一對十多歲的情侶在我們前面的門口處瘋狂地擁吻。“如果真愛對方，他們完全沒有必要這樣做，”叔叔不以爲然地低聲說。

SarahMaddock, a 26-year-old Londoner, explains that a lot of youngpeople aren't thinking about the long term when they date someone:"Kissing and touching are fueled by passion and don't necessarilymean people plan to be together forever. But a couple quietlyholding hands shows something deeper."

對此，26歲的倫敦市民SarahMaddock解釋說，很多年輕人約會時沒有考慮得很長遠。“激情促使他們親吻、愛撫彼此，但這並不一定意味着兩人打算廝守終身。而靜靜牽手的情侶們則宣告着更爲深入的關係。”

In the fastpaced, constantly changing world of youth where everything ispermitted, but nothing is certain, people have time for passion butare scared of the commitment of love。

在如今這個快節奏、不斷變化的年輕人的世界，人們可以做任何事，但沒有什麼是必然的。人們有時間享受激情，卻往往害怕愛情的承諾。

Behavior changesas people age but still many older couples don't share physicalcontact in public。

雖然人們的行爲會隨着年齡的增長而變化，但仍有很多大齡情侶不在公共場合進行肢體接觸。

Sometimes,this is due to time. People are too busy with work or kids to sharesmall intimacies. And there may simply not be enough space in ourcrowded cities。

有時，時間是導致這一現象的罪魁禍首。人們忙着工作或孩子而忽略了這些微小的親密行爲。又或許這只是因爲我們擁擠的城市沒有足夠的空間。

Whatever thereason, Denise Mah, a writer on love relationships, thinks it's abad sign "when your love partner stops holding your hand for noobvious stops putting an arm over your shoulder inpublic when he or she always did before. It is a sign that a breakup is imminent."

無論出於何種原因，研究戀愛關係的作家DeniseMah認爲，如果你的另一半毫無緣由地不像以前那樣在公共場合和你牽手，或將手放在你的肩膀，這都不是一個好現象。這是分手的前兆。

Going hand-in-hand may not only be asign of a sturdy relationship but may also have healthbenefits。

除了作爲穩定關係的標誌，牽手走還有益健康。

Holdingthe hand of a loved one reduces pain during times of distress,according to a recent study by psychologists at the University ofCalifornia。

不久前，加利福尼亞大學心理學家研究發現，牽着戀人的手有助於減輕人們悲痛時的疼痛感。

Another studyby an American psychology professor, Julianne Holt-Lunstad, showedthat support between couples reduces stress. One important way thatpeople express this support, researchers say, is through"non-sexual, caring physical touch, such ashand-holding"。

美國心理學教授JulianneHolt-Lunstad的另一項調查發現，戀人間的支持能夠減輕壓力。研究人員稱，人們表達支持的一個重要方式是“非性的飽含關懷的肢體接觸，例如牽手”。

Subtle shows of affection maybe increasingly rare in our frenzied world. However, if thestatesmen can teach us anything perhaps it's that a little handholding wouldn't go amiss。

在如今這個狂亂的世界，細微的表達愛意的舉動或許會越發罕見。但是，如果政治家們可以教會我們一些事情的話，那或許就是偶爾牽牽手還是不錯的。