離婚後如何享受自由?
Getting divorced can be a challenging process, but once it's complete, you may feel a sense of relief and even lightness. You're free from the constraints and difficulties of your marriage and it's time to put yourself first. Here are great ways to enjoy your newfound freedom.
離婚可能是一個極具挑戰性的過程，但一旦走完所有程序，你會感到無比輕鬆、暢快。你從婚姻中的限制和困難中解脫了，是時候凡事先考慮自己了。以下這些方法可幫助你享受離婚後的自由。
Eat whatever you want, whenever you want
隨時隨地吃你想吃的任何東西
If you and your former spouse had a lot of disagreements about what to eat, now's your time to enjoy the foods you love that he or she preferred to avoid or judged you for eating. So if you're up late watching movies and want to order pizza or bake cookies at 2 a.m., you totally can.
如果你和你的前夫/前妻在吃東西方面有很多分歧，那是時候享受你愛吃而他/她寧願不吃或挑刺的食物了。所以如果你在熬夜看電影，想點份披薩或在凌晨2點想烤餅乾，那就這麼做吧。
Take a solo vacation
一個人去旅行
It might sound daunting to travel alone, but it can also be totally liberating to choose your destination, tailor the trip to your wants and needs, and experience new things on your own. Try one of these amazing places that are particularly fun for single people, or go somewhere you always wanted to see but your former spouse vetoed.
一個人去旅行可能聽起來有點兒艱鉅，但想去哪玩都隨你選啊，可以按照自己的想法和需求量身出遊，一個人體驗新鮮事物。可以去一些適合單身人士的旅遊景點，或者去你一直想去但前夫/前妻不想去的地方。
Buy new clothes-especially ones your ex wouldn't have liked
買新衣服--尤其是前任不喜歡的衣服
Any major life change can trigger a closet revamp, and a divorce is a great chance to reinvent your style, with no one to please but yourself. So go ahead and buy clothes that make you feel amazing, confident, and happy, whether it's those knee-high boots you've always wanted or a custom leather jacket.
任何重要的生活變化都會讓你來一次衣櫃大翻新，而離婚絕對是投資買新衣服的好機會，這一次你只需讓自己高興。所以去吧，買一些讓你感到自信、快樂的衣服，不管是你一直想買的及膝靴還是定製的皮夾克。
Go to the movies alone
一個人看電影
Yes, the movies. Yes, by yourself. Not only can solo movie outings be good for your mental and physical health, but you get to choose the movie, the theatre, what time you're going, and where you sit. Even better, you don't have to share your popcorn or candy with anyone else or listen to their annoying play-by-play.
是的，看電影。是的，一個人去。一個人出去看電影不僅有利於你的身心健康，而且你還可以選你喜歡的電影、電影院、時間及座位。甚至更棒的點在於，你根本不需要和另一個人分享你的爆米花或糖果，也不用聽某人叨叨叨。
Sleep in the middle of the bed
睡在牀中間
Or diagonally across it. Whatever you like: there's no one else there to take up space, and studies show that it might be better for our overall health to sleep alone, and women in particular benefit from sleeping without another person in bed with them. Bonus: no one stealing the covers in the middle of the night.
或者斜躺着睡覺。無論你喜歡哪種姿勢：都沒有別人跟你搶位置，且研究表明：一個人睡覺或更有利於我們的整體健康，特別是女性獨睡時更是如此。福利：夜間沒人跟你搶被子哦。
