有關愛情的最大謊言
Many of us believe misleading information about love. We think that in order to maintain a healthy relationship, we shouldn't tell our partner the truth. We also think that jealously is proof that someone loves us and that we must do everything with our partner. According to Margarida Vieite, a specialist in family therapy at the University of Seville, all of this seems romantic but in reality, a healthy relationship doesn't work like that. Learn more lies about love!
我們中有很多人都相信有關愛情的誤導性信息。我們認爲爲了維繫一段健康的戀情，我們就不應該告訴另一半真相。我們還以爲嫉妒是某人愛我們的證明，認爲做事情一定要有另一半陪着。塞維利亞大學家庭治療專家Margarida Vieite表示，這一切似乎都很浪漫，但實際上，健康的戀情並不是這樣'操作的'。瞭解更多有關愛情的謊言吧！
IF YOU ARE JEALOUS, YOU ARE CRAZY ABOUT ME!
如果你吃醋了，那你就是超級愛我！
Lie. According to Margarida Vieite, a specialist in family therapy at the University of Seville, when our partner is over-the-top jealous, it's a sign that they need help. Jealousy reveals deep-seeded insecurity, low self-esteem and can be a sign of an obsessive disorder.
謊話連篇。塞維利亞大學家庭治療專家Margarida Vieite表示，當你的另一半過度嫉妒時，這表明他們需要幫助。嫉妒揭露了他們內心深處的不安全感、低自尊，也可能是一種強迫性障礙的跡象。
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
一見鍾情
Lie. Love is reciprocal and requires hard work, acceptance and forgiveness. According to the specialist, it arises from mutual appreciation and trust.
謊話。愛情是相互的，需要共同努力、接受和寬恕。Margarida專家表示，愛情源於相互欣賞和信任。
NOW THAT I WON YOU OVER, YOU'RE MINE!
既然我贏得了你的芳心，你就是我的了！
Lie. Winning over your significant other is a daily process. We don't belong to anyone but ourselves, and people are not possessions.
撒謊。贏得另一半的芳心是每天都要做的事情。我們不屬於任何人，只屬於我們自己，而且人也不是財產（不能說屬於誰就屬於誰）。
IF YOU DON'T CALL ME AFTER A FIRST DATE, YOU DON'T LOVE ME
初次約會後，如果你不給我打電話，那你就是不愛我
Lie. Calm down! No one falls in love at first sight. Even if the date was incredible for both people, not calling the next day, or for several days after, doesn't mean that the other person is not interested. According to Margarida Vieite, love involves getting to know and discover who the other person is. It requires time.
假的。鎮靜一點！沒有人會一見鍾情的。即使約會進展的很順利，但第二天或幾天後不打電話聯繫並不意味着那個人對你不感興趣。Margarida Vieite表示愛情涉及慢慢了解、發現另一個人。這需要時間。
MY OTHER HALF IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE...
我的另一半就在那兒等着我呢……
Lie. You don't need another person to feel complete. You already are.
撒謊。你並不需要另一個人才能完整。因爲你本身就已經完整了。
LOVE MEANS DOING EVERYTHING TOGETHER!
愛情就是一起做任何事！
Lie! Doing activities together is great, but loving someone also means giving them the freedom to live their own lives and do things alone or with friends, family and coworkers. Everyone needs to respect the individuality of their partner.
假的！一起活動是件好事，但愛一個人也意味着給他們自由、去過自己想要的生活、一個人或和朋友、家人、同事呆在一起。每個人都需要尊重另一半的個性。
YOU SAY THAT YOU LIKE ME, BUT I NEED TO PRESSURE YOU TO BE WITH ME
你說你喜歡我，但我需要給你壓力才能讓你和我在一起
Lie. If someone really loves another person, they will make time to be with them even if they are busy, according to the family therapist.
說謊。Margarida專家表示，如果一個人真的愛着另一個人，那他/她就會花時間陪另一半，即使他們很忙。
