婚姻和房子Marriage And House

Nowadays，when a couple get married, the first they do is to get enough money to buy a house. In China, it seems that marriage means having a house, it is reported that a newly married couple got divorced because their parents didn’t figure out the legal name of the marriage must plus with house, I don’t think so.

現在，當一對情侶結婚，他們第一件事就是湊夠錢去買房子。在中國，婚姻似乎意味着房子，據報道，一對新婚夫婦離婚，原因在於他們的父母弄不清誰是房子的合法人。婚姻必須加上房子嗎？我不這樣認爲。

It is common that when people get married that they must endow with a house, it is because house brings the couple the sense of secure. Having a house means they are settled, even they are fired from the work, they don’t have to worry about where to live. People own their sense of secure to the house. Marriage brings sense of secure, too, so people think a house is a must.

當人們結婚，他們必須要有房子，這是很正常的，這因爲房子給夫婦帶來安全感。有房子意味着他們安定，即使工作上被開除，也不用擔心住哪裏。人們有他們的安全感歸因於房子。婚姻也帶來安全感，所以人們覺得房子是必須的。

We see the true that today people endow the house with too much emotion. Sometime they even marry for the house, the value of true love is being distorted, people no more put the love in the first place, they consider the house the most important thing. So if there are two guys chasing for a girl, there is no doubt that the guy who owns a house wins. What a terrible thing.

我們要看到這樣的事實，今天人們賦予房子太多的情感。有時候他們甚至爲房子而結婚，真愛的價值被扭曲，人們不再把愛放在第一位上，他們把房子看成最重要的東西。所以如果兩個男孩追一個女孩，毫無疑問，有房子的那個男生贏了。這是多麼可怕的事情啊。

On my opinion, true love is nothing with the house, marriage is on the basis of love, house is not a must for the marriage.

在我看來，真愛跟房子沒有關係，婚姻是在愛的基礎上，房子不是婚姻的必需品。