用正確的方式關愛孩子Care for Children in a Right Way

Recently, Hunan TV station play varietiesshow “Dad where we go” and the show has caused great sensation from netizens think children’s education should starts in a guidance way, andmany parents also rethink their way of teaching. Using the right way to takecare of children should be an important course for parents.

最近，湖南電視臺播出了一個綜藝節目《爸爸我們去哪兒》。節目播出後，引起了很大反響。很多網民的認爲孩子的教育應該用引導的方式，也有很多家長反思自己教育孩子的方式。用正確的方式關愛孩子是很多家長現在應該學習的課程。

First, communicate with children, andlisten to their thought. Many parents always think children are too little toknow nothing consider everything from an adult’s perspective which don’t from child's ways, and this willcause children rebel psychology. Therefore, chatting with kids more, knowingtheir thought more, and change their bad thinking through the dialogue.

首先，多跟孩子交流，並傾聽孩子的想法。很多家長認爲孩子小，總是從大人的角度想問題，不考慮孩子的想法，會導致小孩叛逆心理。多跟孩子聊天，知道他們的想法，藉着聊天的過程改變他們不好的想法。

Second, do not compel children to e is an old saying: Interest is the best teacher. Hoping children has abright future is the wish of most Chinese parents, therefore, extra-curriculartutorial have become a matter of course to Chinese children. Intimidating childto learn will let them feel tired, even affect their interest in learning.

其次，不要強迫孩子學習。學習最好的老師是興趣。“望子成龍”是很多中國家長的願望，所以課外輔導課也演變成中國小孩理所應當要做的事。但是強迫式的學習會讓孩子厭倦，甚至會影響他們對學習的興趣。

Finally, allow children to make we know, it’s usual for children to make mistakes. Children make mistakes isequivalent to learning, because they could avoid such errors happen again inthe future. And Parents should tolerant such wrong behaviors, but not indulgethem. When children make mistakes criticism should be instead by other ways.

最後，允許孩子犯錯。我們都知道小孩子都會犯錯，孩子犯錯其實等同於在學習，是爲了未來不再發生類似錯誤。父母對孩子犯錯應抱寬容的態度，但不能縱容。在孩子犯錯時不能嚴厲批評而是要用別的方式教育他們。

To sum up, when children grow up, they willmeet all kinds of conditions, correct family education is very necessary. Parentneed to let children walk on their own, instead of holding their hands at everyturn

綜上所述，孩子在成長時會遇到各種狀況，正確的家庭教育非常必要。父母應該給與孩子更多的空間，放手讓他們自己走，同時也要把孩子往正確的道路上引導。