對愛情的教育 Education of Love

In China, the traditional parents believe that it is not suitable for their children to fall in love before they attend university, because it will bring negative effect to their study, so they supervise the kids all the time. Actually, as the world gets globalized and the development of the Internet, kids have their view about love.
在中國，傳統的父母認爲他們的孩子在上大學之前談戀愛是不合適的，因爲這會給他們的學習帶來負面影響，所以他們一直監督着他們的孩子。實際上，隨着世界經濟全球化和互聯網的發展，孩子們對愛情有自己的看法。

Today, the kids have access to all kinds of information. They know the world at the early age and become mature soon. So the traditional parents need to adjust their educational view. It is not reasonable to forbid children from falling in love with someone, because it is human nature to do it. Foreign parents are good at dealing with kids’ emotion problem.
如今，孩子們能夠接觸到各種各樣的信息，他們在年齡較小的時候就對世界有所瞭解，也就很快就變得成熟了。所以傳統父母需要調整他們的教育觀點。禁止孩子們愛上別人、談戀愛，是不明智的，因爲這是人類的天性。外國父母就擅長處理孩子的情感問題。

The foreign parents will never say any negative words when their children talk about their emotional problem, instead, they let their kids make their own decision on the basis of guiding them with positive attitude. If parents deny everything all the time, then kids will never have the real talk with them. 
外國父母永遠不會在孩子談論他們的情感問題時說任何消極的話，相反，在引導他們用積極的態度面對的基礎上他們讓孩子們自己做決定。如果父母總是否認所有的事情，那麼孩子們將永遠都不會與他們進行真正的交談。

It is important for parents to educate their kids to deal with the relationship properly. 
父母教育孩子如何正確處理感情是很重要的。