父母的期望 Parents’ Expectation

It is said that Chinese parents are the world’s most responsible parents, since the kids are born, they start to plan everything for the children, they choose the school, the kids’ hobby even the kids’ partners. Chinese parents want to raise their kids to be the excellent ones, they put so much hope on the kids. While it is also said the Chinese kids are the world’s most unhappy kids, because they live as what the parents tell them, they don’t have their own thinking. Both sides reflect Chinese family situation that the parents give the children too much pressure, the children feel unhappy about their parents’ expectation. Indeed, I feel the way, my parents always want me to be the No.1, they tell me I should get the highest score, I feel tired, I tell them how I feel, then they begin to realize their expectation has become a burden for me. parents should give space to their kids.

據說中國的父母是世界上最負責任的父母，打從孩子出生，他們就爲孩子計劃了一切，他們選擇學校，孩子的業餘愛好，甚至於孩子的玩伴。中國的父母想要把孩子培養成優秀的人，他們對孩子給予了很多的希望。然而據說中國的孩子是世界上最不幸福的孩子，因爲他們按照父母的醫院活着，沒有自己的想法。兩邊的說法反應了中國的家庭現狀，父母給予孩子太多壓力，孩子對於父母的期望感到不開心。確實，我有同感，我的父母總是想要我成爲第一名，他們告訴我要拿最高分，我覺得很累，告訴了父母自己的想法，然而他們開始意識到自己的期望已經成爲了我的負擔。父母應該給孩子一些空間。