家長間攀比對孩子造成的傷害 The Hurt on Children Between Parents’ Comparison

When we are smAll, we met this situation all the time, while our parents were talking to their friends, suddenly they called us to show our talent in front of their friends. This is very awkward situation to every child, they hate to show in front of parents’ friends, but they can’t resist what the parents tell them to do. The parents’ purpose is so obvious, they want to show off their children to their friends,

so they can have face. All the parents ignore the negative effect on their children, all the children hate to do it, they have their dignity, they don’t like to be someone’s toy, so the children will become rebel. Parents should not take their children as the thing to show off, they will have pressure, they need to be respected. It hurts the children’s hearts, parents should show more respect to their children, let them have more freedom.
當我們小的時候，我們會不斷遇到這樣的情形，當我們的父母和朋友聊天的時候，突然間他們叫我們在他們的朋友面前表演才藝。這對每個孩子來說是很尷尬的情形，他們討厭在父母的朋友面前表演，但是又不能抵抗父母叫他們做的。父母的目的很明顯，他們想要在他們的朋友面前炫耀孩子，因此他們會有面子。所有的父母都忽視了對孩子造成的消極影響，他們不想要成爲某人的玩具，所以孩子會變得反叛。父母不應該把孩子當成炫耀的資本，他們會有壓力，需要被尊重。這傷害了孩子的心靈，父母應該多尊重孩子，讓他們有更多的自由。