僅需十招 判斷追你的男孩是否值得你愛

Want to know if he's the one? Take a look at our 10 giveaway signs that he's a keeper.
想知道他是不是你命中註定的那一位？那麼就看下預示他忠於愛情的十大泄密信號吧。

Part time fling or long term lover?
It's the eternal question. He's cute, funny and your friends love him, but is that enough? How do you know he's ‘the one'? Here are 10 factors to consider and if you can meet at least nine of them then hold tight because he might just be the one you've been looking for...
一時興起的花花公子還是矢志不渝的戀人？
這是個永恆的問題？他可愛，風趣，也討你朋友的喜歡，但是這些就夠了嗎？你怎樣才能確定他就是“那一位”呢？一下有十大方面供你考慮，若有人能至少能符合其中九條，那麼你可得好好把握他，因爲他很可能就是你一直在尋覓的命中唯一。

He makes you laugh until you cry
A sense of the humour is one of the most appealing qualities in a man and sharing the same jokes will keep you close, whatever comes your way. It doesn't matter if no one else finds you funny, as long as you can make each other laugh out loud.
他能讓你笑出眼淚來
幽默感是男人最重要的品質之一。無論在什麼情況下，分享笑話總能拉近你們的距離。只要你們能使彼此哈哈大笑，別人覺得你們無趣也不打緊。

You want the same things out of life
If you want to settle down and have a family and he wants to travel the world with no commitments then you are not on the same page. Although all couples have to make compromises you should essentially want the same things out of life and be able to work towards them together.
你們對生活有着同樣的追求
如果你想安家立業，而他卻想雲遊四方，無拘無束；那麼你們並不在一條道上。儘管所有的夫妻都需要對彼此做出退步，但是你們的生活追求在本質上應是相同的，並且能夠朝着這個目標攜手共進。

He likes you best with no make-up on
Yes, you may think he is lying but the chances are that he really does prefer you au natural. He loves you for you, not for the clothes you wear or the make up you doll yourself up in. If he tells you you're pretty when you are cuddled up in your pyjamas then chances are that he means it.
他最愛你素面朝天時的模樣
是的，你可能覺得他在說謊，但是也可能他是真的更喜歡你自然的樣子。他愛的是你，而不是你穿的衣服，畫的妝。如果當你縮在睡衣裏時，他說你很美，那麼他說的很可能是真心話。

You see his flaws but love him anyway
It is wrong to think that to be ‘the one' your man has to be perfect. Nobody is perfect. He is ‘the one' when you know him well enough to see all his flaws, accept them for part of who he is, and love him just as much anyway.
你知道他的缺點，但依然愛他
如果你認爲你的真命天子應當是個完美之人，那你就錯了。人無完人。他是那個你瞭解得足以東西他缺點的唯一。你接受了這些缺點，把這當做他的一部分，並且深愛他一如往初。

He supports you in everything you do
Whether you are going for a job promotion or planning a night out with your friends - he should be your biggest cheerleader. He may not agree 100% with all your decisions but he will never stop you doing anything, will be there to offer advice and pick you up when things go wrong.
他給予你無條件的支持
不論你是在爭取升職還是計劃晚上和朋友們出去玩，他都應該是最支持你的人。他可能並不會完全支持你所有的決定，但是他從不阻止你做任何事，他會一直在你身邊，爲你出謀劃策，或是收拾殘局。

You trust him implicitly
If you have been hurt in the past it can be difficult to trust again, but it is an important part of any relationship. Your partner should earn your trust by proving that he always keeps his word and treats you with respect. No, you can never be 100% sure he won't stray but 99.5% will do.
你暗自信任他
如果你曾經受過傷，那麼你會覺得很難再次相信別人，但是信任是任何一種關係中至關重要的一部分。你的伴侶始終信守承諾並且尊重你，以此贏得你的信任。不，你不可能100%肯定他不會變心，但是99.5%的把握還是有的。

Even your dad/best friend/dog likes him
OK, it shouldn't matter what other people think of him, but it is still nice to know that they approve. Your dad and best friend are only looking out for your best interests and it is difficult to convince them that somebody is good enough for you. If your boyfriend manages to get them on his side then you are probably on to a winner.
甚至連你的爸爸＼摯友＼狗狗都喜歡他
好吧，別人怎麼看他的確無關緊要，但是知道別人是否贊同還是件不錯的事。你的爸爸和最好的朋友是唯一爲你的切身利益考慮的人，而且很難說服他們那個人對你而言足夠好了。如果你的男朋友成功地讓他們站在了他那邊，那麼你可能就是贏家了。

You wake up and feel lucky each morning
As you roll over in the morning and see him lying next to you, you are struck with a great sense of contentment. Here, out of everywhere in the world, is where you most want to be. You feel lucky to have him in your life and can't imagine sharing it with anyone else.
當你每天早晨醒來之時，深感幸運
當你早晨翻身看見他躺在你身邊時，滿足之感油然而生。你覺得這兒是你全世界最想駐足之地。他進入了你的生命，對此你深感幸運，而且無法想象與他人分享這一切。

You stop noticing the cute guy at the coffee shop
Of course you are still going to find other men attractive but it is amazing how much less you notice them when you have found ‘the one'. Think about it, have you met anyone recently who really got your juices flowing? No? Then chances are he's right in front of you.
你不再注意咖啡店裏的那些帥哥
當然了，你還是會發現其他男人富有魅力，但是令人詫異的是，自從找到你的真命天子之後，你竟然很少注意到那些帥哥。想想看，最近有有什麼人讓你意亂神迷的嗎？沒有？那麼可能性就是他就在你眼前。

You just know
Sometimes there is no defining factor or moment that confirms he is ‘the one' - you just know. When your life is brighter with him in it (even with his annoying habits and football obsession), when you feel happy each morning and can't imagine your life without him, when you smile thinking about him - you just know.
你就是知道
有時候並沒有什麼決定性的因素或時刻來表明他就是你的“唯一”－－但是你就是知道。當你的生活因他而多彩（即便他習慣惱人，狂愛足球），當你每日早晨因他而開心而且無法想象沒有他的生活，當你想起他時會微微笑——你知道就是他了。