女人:10招讓你心儀的男人愛上你

Step 1 The first thing you must do is what you could call"homework". You must ask around. Find out if he has a Myspace/Facebook/other social networking site. This is great for finding out what he's into, like music/films/general opinions. You can use this information to start up conversations later on.
第一個就是“好問”。問他要互聯網的用戶名，這樣就可以知道他喜歡的音樂，電影，他人生觀了，接着就可以根據他的喜好來打岔了。

3 Step 3 Then you must acquire a simple form of communication. For example, the "hi-and-bye-friend", which is exactly as it sounds. Use mutual friends to your advantage here. If you see them talking, go over and join in. Your friend should introduce you, and voila! Now maintain the smiling and greetings every time you see him.
照面熟。見面的時候簡單地問候，找內線，打成一團，一起討論，可以通過你的其他朋友來認識。

4 Step 4 When you next speak to him properly, steer the conversation around to the internet or computers, and ask if he has Instant Messenger.
在經過一番對話之後，試探地問出對方的QQ號，或者手機號。

5 Step 5 After that, you must go the extra mile. Stand out from the crowd. Do small things to get his attention, like if you already know him (albeit vaguely) make sure you are always there for him if he needs someone to talk to or if he needs to borrow something. Does he play sports? If so, you better get your butt on a bleacher with a towel, water bottle, and whatever else he needs. This way you're showing him you like him without telling him.
接着，吸引他的注意力。讓他覺得，自己可以隨時找你借東西或者聊天。他是否打籃球呢？如果是，那麼記得坐在旁邊的椅子上，給他遞水，拿毛巾，或者其他的。

6 Step 6 Guys like to comfort girls, so let them feel manly! Seize control without them becoming aware by letting him comfort you through a hard time. Allow him think he made you feel better.
每個男人都希望是個男子漢，喜歡安慰弱小的女人。遇到挫折的時候，找他們訴苦，讓他們覺得在你心中他們是真正的男人。

7 Step 7 Guys like girls that are always "keeping it real", so be natural. Keep them laughing, smiling, and happy. Don't attention seek or b***h about other people. Except maybe teachers/bosses.
男人喜歡自然不做作的女人。開心地笑，不要在背後說別人的長短，除非是你的老師或者是你的老闆。

8 Step 8 Once you get a guy to like you, try to let go a little TINY bit so they can come. Ask your friends for their opinions if he likes you if you cannot tell. Maybe flirt a little with other guys. Play hard-to-get, but always be honest.
當你不是很確定對方是否已經開始喜歡自己的時候，問問身邊的朋友，聽聽他們的意見。可以試着與別的男生調情，讓他覺得你不是那麼好得手的。

d getting angry at him for stupid stuff, like hitting you with a ball or teasing you, when he means well. If he hurts you physically or emotionally, then it's okay to be angry.
記住不要爲一些小事和男人生氣，譬如不小心用球砸到你，或者開你的玩笑。如果他確實傷害了你的身體或者是感情，就是另一回事了。

liment him. Guys love this!
最後，記住，男人也是人，他們也喜歡聽好話。

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