如何發現正在暗戀你的人?

Astronauts are way out there in space, but how do you know if a guy likes you? Well, this is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Women's Guide to Men and Dating and host of Ask Dr. Paul. What in the world do astronauts and space have to do with how do you know if a guy likes you?

宇航員知道怎樣進入太空，可你如何知道一個男生是否喜歡你呢？我是保羅博士，是《Boomer Girls》、《A Women's Guide to Men 》還有《Dating and host of Ask Dr. Paul》的作者。到底宇航員和太空和如何知道一個男生是否喜歡你有啥關係呢？

Well, it's all about space, and that's where we started with that because he will be in your space. If a guy likes you, he's going to be where you can see him. He will be in your space. If you were with a group of people, for example, and you might have an idea that he might like you but you're not sure, see where he positions himself.

其實它們都和空間有關，我們之所以要以這個來開頭就是因爲如果一個男生喜歡你他就會進入你的空間。如果一個男生喜歡你他將會去你能看到他的地方。他就會進入到你的空間。比如說，如果你和一羣人在一起，你可能覺得他也許喜歡你但你不確定，那麼看看他在哪裏。

Is he in your immediate space? Is he in an area where he knows you can see him? That's a prime indicator of a man liking you. He is going to be around you. He is going to be in your proximity. He is going to communicate with you, laugh at your jokes. If everybody laughs or if you laugh, he'll laugh also.

他是不是離你很近？他是不是在一個他知道你一定能看到他的地方呢？這是一個他是否喜歡你的主要指示。他將會圍着你轉。他將會親近你。他將會和你搭訕，對你講的笑話大笑。如果每個人都笑，或者你笑，他也會跟着笑。

It's almost like when we hear people say that imitation is the highest form of flattery, he will probably imitate some of the things you do. Now, psychologically, that's how we tell that someone likes us. Use that as an indicator and that clue will carry you fall right in knowing that answer. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.

這就像我們聽別人說的模仿是最大的獻媚，他也許會模仿你所做的一些事。心理學來講這就是我們如何知道一個人喜歡我們。把這個當作一個指示，這個線索會帶你找出其中答案。我是保羅博士。希望你今天的夢想會成爲你明天的現實。