3句智慧珠璣幫助你真正忘記那些不屬於你的人

1. You never really say goodbye
1.你永遠不會真正說再見

It is sad, unsettling, and a really uncomfortable feeling to be okay for days, weeks, and years, rarely ever thinking about them or their voice or their face. Then suddenly, bam, there they are again, haunting your thoughts. Making you wish you had tried harder to keep them.
幾天幾周幾年感到悲傷和真的不舒服還好，偶爾還是會想起他們，想起他們的聲音或者面容。然後你的感情就突然崩潰了，他們又開始在你的腦海中揮之不去。讓你希望自己當時應該更加努力來挽留他們。

Maybe you go into Facebook stalker-mode and try to learn everything that has happened since you last spoke. You tell yourself to just say goodbye and let it go. But I am telling you not to. Remember how this person made you feel. Remember that love.
或許你會去Facebook開啓跟蹤狂模式，想知道在你們最後一次談話之後他身邊發生的一切。你告訴自己說再見，讓感情消散。但是我要告訴你不要這樣做。要記住這個人給你的感覺。記住那段愛青。

2. You can love another person
2.你可以愛上另一個人

Rekindle it. Recycle it. Put it into something or someone else. Because if you are capable of loving one person this deeply, you can love another. Do not do yourself the injustice of giving up on love just because one got away. We all lose big fish once in a while. Pick up your tackle box. Move on to the next watering hole.
重新點燃愛情之火。回收你的感情。將你的愛放到其他事情或者其他人身上。因爲如果你能深愛上一個人，你也能愛上另一個人。不要因爲一段愛情消散不去，就對自己不公平而放棄愛情。我們都會偶爾錯失大魚。拎着你的釣魚盒，繼續到另一個水坑中釣魚。

3. That rejection prepares you for life
3.拒絕是生活給你準備好的禮物

It sucks, and it hurts. Your heart remembers the initial shock of realizing they are not yours time and time again. But that is okay too. You know why? That rejection prepares you for life.
被拒絕很討厭，很傷人。你的心裏一次次回憶當你意識到他們不是你的時候的最初的震驚。但是這也沒什麼。你知道爲什麼。因爲拒絕是生活給你準備好的禮物。

You get stronger when you realize that you have survived without the person you thought you couldn’t live without. Then take a look at their life, key to their happiness, and realize that while this person is not with you, they are happy as well.
當你意識到你之前以爲沒有那個人你就活不下去，但是你卻活得很好的時候，你就會變得更加堅強。然後看一下他們的生活，他們幸福的關鍵，意識到當這個人沒有你的時候，他們也依然快樂。