剩女準則:15招讓你愛情財富雙豐收
1. Don't Chase Anyone
"Guys are like subway trains. Don't run after them; another one is on its way." —canuck, on
1. 不要追着男人跑：男人就像是地鐵列車一樣，不要追着一輛跑，因爲下一輛馬上就會進站的。—— canuck 《魅力》
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2. Don't Waste Your Time
"If he says he isn't ready for a relationship, believe him." —Kerri Otto, 32, Traverse City, Mich.
2. 不要浪費時間：當一個男人對你說他還沒有準備好投入一段感情的時候，請你一定要相信他！—— kerri otto
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3. Long-Term Litmus Test
"Marry someone you want to sit next to for the rest of your life." —Megan Smollins, 26, Astoria, N.Y.
3. 長期試金石：嫁給一個你想下半生都配在他身邊的人。—— Megan Smollins
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4. Heed Your Grandparents
"My grandfather had some gems: 'Don't be with a stupid man just to be with any man.' 'A real man always takes care of his family.' 'You don't want to be walked over, and you don't want a man you can walk over, either.' And my favorite: 'Don't be a fool, Michelle. You can be anything you want, but don't be a fool.'" —Michelle Porter, 28, Charlotte, N.C.
4. 聽從老人的勸告：“不要爲了只是想找一個男朋友而跟一個傻男人在一起。”“一個真正的男人在任何時候都會照顧到他的家人。”“你不想被別人牽着鼻子走，但你也絕對不想找一個能被你牽着鼻子走的男人！”“你可以成爲你想成爲的一切，但是不要成爲一個傻瓜！”—— Michelle Porter
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5. The Necessity of Laughter
"Don't trust anyone who doesn't laugh." —Maya Angelou
5. 笑聲的必要性：一定不要去相信一個吝嗇笑容的人。 —— Maya Angelou
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6. Go Geeky
"The guys who were nerdy in high school make the best husbands." —Jennifer Goldstein, 31, Brooklyn
6. 衝啊書呆子：那些在學生時代有點書呆子的男生往往後來都會成爲好丈夫的人選。 —— Jennifer Goldstein
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7. Love Yourself
"To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance." —Oscar Wilde
7. 愛你自己：學會愛自己其實就是一段浪漫一生的愛情的開始。 —— Oscar Wilde
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8. Kindness Counts
"You can tell a lot about a guy by how he treats your cab driver." —Alanna Sobel, 25, Washington, D.C.
8. 善良的重要性：你可以通過一個男人對待出租車司機的態度來了解他。 —— Alanna Sobel
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9. No Games
"If he likes you, you'll know. If he doesn't, you'll be 'confused.'" —sayitloud, on
9. 不要遊戲：如果他喜歡你，你一定會察覺到；但如果你不確定他對你的感情，那他很有可能只是跟你玩玩而已。—— sayitloud 《魅力》
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10. Believe In Your Worth
"Respect yourself. I said to my ex, 'I'm not going to make you my everything if I'm only your something.'" —Alyssa Stabile, 19, Boston
10. 相信自己的價值：一定要尊重自己。如果你只是他生活中的一部分，那麼也請你不要把他看成是生活的全部。—— Alyssa Stabile
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11. Try a Nice Guy
"I used to be into bad boys but kept getting burned. Then I heard this: 'Say no to the guys you usually say yes to, and yes to the ones you normally say no to.' I did, and it totally worked. I have a great husband now." —Laura Knudsen, 27, Charlottetown, Prince Edward Island
11. 試着跟好男人交往：拒絕那些你以前經常交往的男人的類型，嘗試着跟其他類型的男人交往。—— Laura Knudsen
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12. Avoid Loners
"Never marry a man who has no friends." —Father Pat Connor, 79-year-old Catholic priest, as quoted by Maureen Dowd in her New York Times column
12. 孤獨者繞行：絕對不要嫁給一個沒有朋友的男人！—— Father Pat Connor
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13. Just Say No to Ink
"Never tattoo a guy's name on your body!" —Rebekah Rankin, 27, Scottsdale, Ariz.
13. 對墨水說不：無論什麼時候都不要將一個男人的名字紋在身上！—— Rebekah Rankin
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14. Hygiene Is Non-Negotiable
"Personal hygiene is part of the package." —Jim Carrey
14. 不能讓步的衛生：個人衛生問題是一個男人的附屬品。—— Jim Carrey
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15. Be Yourself
"It's OK to show up at a guy's house with a dozen roses and declare your undying affection. It's OK to have too much to drink and call your ex 20 times and then to be mortally embarrassed when you realize your number must have shown up on his caller ID. It's OK, because making a fool of yourself for love is ultimately about you, how much you have to give and the distances you will travel to keep your heart wide open when everything around you makes you feel like slamming it shut and soldering it closed." —Veronica Chambers, Glamour's features director and author of The Joy of Doing Things Badly
15. 做你自己：你可以拿着一打玫瑰到你喜歡的男人門口對他做露骨的表白；你也可以在喝醉酒以後不停的給前男友打電話，並在酒醒之後因爲意識到他可以看到來電顯示上自己的號碼而覺得尷尬。你可以這樣做，因爲爲愛而做傻事是一件很私人的，只是關於你自己的事。是關於在壓力困境和傷害中，你可以爲愛付出多少，並且願意爲了愛去做出多少努力和犧牲的一件事。—— Veronica Chambers
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