做這些事前,先別答應他/她的求婚
MOVING IN TOGETHER
同居They say that moving in together is one of the greatest tests a relationship can go through. And it's 100% true, you don't really know your partner until you've lived together and experienced all their annoying habits firsthand.
人們說，同居是檢驗戀情能否度過艱難時刻的最佳方法之一。這完全正確，因爲除非你們生活在一起、親身體會他們那些惱人的習慣之後，你纔算真正瞭解你的另一半。TRAVELLING TOGETHER
一起旅行
Going on vacation together is a vital step before walking down the aisle. No matter how long we spend planning our vacations, something always goes wrong, so if you can get through vacation drama, then you are made for each other.
一起度假是結婚前的重要一步。即便我們花了很多的心思在旅遊攻略上面，但總有出錯的時候，所以如果你們能安然度過假期裏不愉快的小插曲，那你們就非常適合在一起了。SETTING GOALS TOGETHER
一起設定目標The five year plan may seem a little daunting, but if you really see yourself with your partner in the long run, it's essential for you to understand what they want out of life and where they see themselves.
設定五年的計劃可能有點令人怯步，但如果你真的能從長遠角度預見你和你的另一半，那麼理解這一點十分關鍵：他們想要從生活中得到什麼、他們如何評估自己的位置。TALKING FINANCES
談論財務狀況No one likes to talk about their finances, but before envisaging getting married and living happily ever after, you need to talk about mortgages and all those kind of fun things!
沒有人喜歡談論自己的財務狀況，但在想象自己結婚、從此以後過上幸福生活之前，你們需要談論按揭，以及諸如此類的'趣事'！ARGUING…A LITTLE
會爭吵Arguing is never fun, although the way you deal with an argument speaks volumes about your relationship. A little argument never hurt anybody and it's a great way to really get to know your partner.
爭吵從來都不是樂事，但你們處理爭端的方式卻說明了你們的戀愛關係。有點兒爭吵從來不會傷害任何人，而且也是一種瞭解另一半的方式。TALKING ABOUT KIDS
談論孩子Kids can be deal breakers in relationships, so before jumping into anything too serious, you must be on the same page as your partner.
孩子可能是戀情中煞風景的事兒，但考慮重要事情之前（結婚），你必須和你的另一半在這一點上達成一致。GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER'S FAMILIES
慢慢了解彼此的家庭Even if the thought of getting to know your future mother-in-law scares you, having a good relationship with your partner's family is essential before getting married.
即使一想到了解未來婆婆就讓你感到害怕，但婚前和另一半的家人相處融洽是很重要的。
GETTING A PET TOGETHER
一起養寵物Getting a pet together is a real test of love and commitment to any relationship. Seeing your partner wake up early on a Sunday morning to walk the dog will give you a real sense of reassurance that they are committed to you.
對任何關係而言，一起養寵物都是對愛和承諾的真正考驗。看到另一半週日早晨早起遛狗會讓你放心：他/她真的忠心於你。GOING THROUGH A TOUGH TIME
一起度過艱難時刻Solid relationships are able to survive highs and lows and going through any stressful time will make you both stronger and intensify your connection.
穩定的關係能歷經起起落落、度過壓力山大的時光，你們會變得更強大、更親密。FUTURE EXPECTATIONS DISCUSSION
討論你們對未來的期望'Where do you see yourself living?' 'How do you envisage raising your future kids?' These kinds of deep discussions are essential to have before putting a ring on it.
"以後會在哪邊生活？""你覺得以後會怎樣撫養小孩兒？"婚前進行這種深層次的討論是很重要的。
