婚禮當天的幾個跡象表明婚姻不會長久

There are a few aspects of a wedding that show things may not be as happy as they seem.

婚禮當天的幾個方面表明新婚夫婦並不是像他們表面那麼幸福。

Sometimes a marriage just doesn’t work, no matter how much the two parties try.

有時候結婚也並沒有什麼作用，無論男女雙方多麼努力。

But according to Reddit user Modern Day Cinderella (who has worked at more than 100 weddings), when asked the question "what happened at a wedding that let you know the marriage was going to end in divorce?", she’s seen all the clues that the happy couple’s future may not last.

但是依據紅網用戶“當代灰姑娘”（在100多場婚禮上工作過），當問到她這個問題“婚禮當天發生的什麼事情會讓你認爲新婚夫婦最終會離婚？”，她注意到了所有標誌着新婚夫婦未來不會長久的所有跡象。

Modern Day Cinderella says that how a couple cut the cake is a big tell-tale sign.

“當代灰姑娘”說新婚夫婦切蛋糕的方式是最有用的預兆。

“During the cake cutting, most brides will say don't smash the cake in their face (or vice-versa). If the other person does it anyway, that's a huge tell for respect.”

“在切蛋糕的時候，大多數新娘都會說不要將蛋糕扔到她們的臉上（或者新郎說不要扔到他們的臉上）。如果另一方卻將蛋糕扔到克對方臉上，這是最大的預兆。”

“I know it's all fun and games, but it's a big tell to overall feelings.”

“我知道這只是開玩笑的遊戲，但是卻能很明顯反應整體的感覺。”

She also says another indication is how the bride and groom deal with the stress of the day.

她還說了另一個標誌，就是新娘和新郎如何應對婚禮當天的壓力。

“I have to be the one that tells them, 'look, I know you're p***d at each other right now, but for the sake of your lifetime memories, fake that you like each other for the rest of the night.’”

“我得告訴他們‘看，我知道你們現在很渴望對方，但是爲了你們一生的美好回憶，還是在晚上剩餘的時間再享受吧。’”

Then there’s the bridezilla – or the groomzilla, as ModernDayCinderella points out.

“當代灰姑娘”還指出，有的時候會有比較難纏的新娘或者新郎。

“If you're a Bride or Groomzilla then that's a tell, too. All of my monsters have been absolute control freaks and refuse to let people help them, but then get p***d that nobody helps them.

如果你是一個難纏的新娘或者新郎，那麼這也是一個預兆。我的所有魔鬼都是絕對的控制狂，而且拒絕其他人的幫助，但是他們還是會與幫助他們的人發生關係。