初次約會如何成功的5大建議
Entering the dating world may be intimidating for some people but with the help of Bravo TV star and sex and relationship expert, Dr. Emily Morse, knowing the do’s and don’ts will make dating a bit easier. Voted as the No. 1 dating expert to follow on Twitter as well as the No. 1 dating and sex expert by , Emily continues to answer questions on her website, Sex With Emily, that most might be too embarrassed to ask in person. There she discusses topics varying from proper first date etiquette to how to spice things up in the bedroom. Besides helping both men and women approach the opposite sex, Dr. Emily gives helpful advice on how to make sure first dates goes as smooth as possible. Here are Dr. Emily’s top 5 tips for a successful date.
對有些人來說，約會可能是很恐怖的一件事，然而，在電視明星兼性學和戀愛專家艾米麗摩斯博士的幫助下，瞭解哪些該做，哪些不該做將使約會更加輕鬆。艾米麗經Twitter投票成爲第一約會專家，經網站投票成爲第一約會性學專家，她繼續在個人網站——Sex With Family——爲人們解惑答疑，大多都是人們不好意思當面問的問題。她在網站上討論的話題包括：初次約會需要注意的禮節；如何在臥室增添樂趣。此外，她還幫助兩性接近異性，關於確保初次約會順利進行的方式提供有益的建議。下文是艾米麗博士關於成功約會的5大建議。
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1.享受現在
Don’t play out your future relationship with the person in your head. This is a first date. You are not in a relationship so don’t act like you are in one. This isn’t a good time to mention that you want to have their babies in the next year. On the other hand, don’t go into a date thinking that it is doomed. Try to enjoy the company of another person and analyze later. Worst case scenario, it’s a chance to tell all the funny stories your friends are sick of hearing.
切勿在腦海中計劃你與她的未來關係。這只是初次約會，還沒有確定戀愛關係，因此，不要表現的像在談戀愛一樣。這樣的場合不適合提到明年你想要和她生孩子諸如此類的話。此外，不要進入約會思維模式，認爲你們是命中註定的。儘量享受另外一個人的陪伴，事後再做分析。如果你認爲可以趁這個機會把所有朋友們討厭聽到的幽默故事講給她聽，那就太糟糕了。
't Be Glued to Your Cell Phone
2.切勿緊盯手機
I realize that pretending to check your cell phone is a great way to avoid awkward silences, but resist the urge. Stay engaged. Make eye contact with your date instead of with your phone, and ask them how many siblings they have or if they’ve seen Gravity yet.
我知道假裝查看手機是避免冷場的妙招，然而約會時務必要抵制這一衝動。與她保持互動，進行眼神交流。問她家裏有幾個兄弟姐妹，或有沒有看過萬有引力這部電影。
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