雙語朗讀美文：如何讓他愛你多一點

摘錄：當你愛一個人時，你必須向他表明，不管他的生活中發生什麼，也許是家庭問題、工作問題或別的問題，你都在他身邊。即使他們看上去總是很堅強，他們也需要我們的幫助。

There are many ways to say to your boyfriend “I love you and I am here for you” but there is a difference between saying it and showing that you truly love the person. It is through supporting him when he is in pain and hurt that lets him know that you are there。

對你的男朋友說“我愛你，我一直都在你身邊”有許多方式，但把愛掛在嘴上和展現你對這個人的真愛是有區別的。要通過在他痛苦受傷時對他的支持讓他明白，你一直都在。

To support your boyfriend one must look for ways to make him see that you are sincere:

想要支持你的男朋友，你必須尋找一些方式，讓他看見你的誠意：

When you love a person you must show that you are there for them whatever is happening in their lives, may it be family problems, at work or something else arises. They also need our help even if they look strong all the times. Men usually try to hide away their problems and stress and seldom speak it out openly. You need to make him feel enough comfortable to let him pour his heart out. Have the instinct to sense that they have something in mind。

當你愛一個人時，你必須向他表明，不管他的生活中發生什麼，也許是家庭問題、工作問題或別的問題，你都在他身邊。即使他們看上去總是很堅強，他們也需要我們的幫助。男人常常試圖掩蓋他們的問題和壓力，很少會坦然地說出來。你需要讓他感到足夠舒服，好讓他傾吐心聲。你需要具備這種直覺，可以感知他們頭腦中所想。

Be ready to listen to their heartaches when they talk to you about their frustrations or problems. They need to feel that you care but do not let them feel that you are trying to switch on a topic to avoid their confessions to you. The body language means a lot to some guys, be wary that they will be secretive

again as they usually are. To pay attention to them there might be a room for more lessons to be learned about him and how he feels。

當他們向你傾訴自己遇到的挫折和問題時，做好準備聆聽他們的心痛。他們需要感受到你的關心，但不要讓他們覺得你正在試圖轉換話題以迴避他們的傾訴。對一些男人來說肢體語言很重要，所以要小心，否則他們又會像以往那樣對問題遮遮掩掩。想要注意到這些，還要多積累一些對於他和他的感受的經驗。

Show that you love them by little things such as hugs, smiles, tapping on shoulders, listening attentively

to what they tell you. Supporting them will be a greatest factor to say you have affection for them and they will just love it。

通過一些小舉動表現你對他們的愛，比如說擁抱、微笑，輕拍肩膀，仔細聆聽他們對你講的話。支持他們是對他們說你愛他們的最主要因素，他們也會喜歡這樣。

　　Respect your boyfriend

　　尊重你的男朋友

this is one way to give them a sense of self esteem to become more matured in doing their ways. Let them return back the favor to you so you will know that they really love you and you mean something for them。

尊重你的男朋友。這是讓他們獲得自尊的一種方式，讓他們在以自己的方式獲得自尊時變得更加成熟。讓他們回報給你同樣的尊重，這樣你會知道他們真的愛你，你對他們來說意味着很多。

　　Love them

　　愛他們

　　one thing to show that you support him is to love him in spite of his imperfections. This is the only thing that will make him feel successful and forget his imperfections

　　展現你對他的支持的重要一點是：儘管他有不完美之處，但你依然愛他。只有這樣才能讓他感到成功並且忘記自己的不完美。

　　Encourage them to talk as often。

　　鼓勵他們儘可能多地和你交談

　　Communications should not be an obstacle　between the two of you. Man are oftentimes shy whether you may not notice that at all with them but there is some discouragement that houses in them. Don't talk when he does not want to. This will test that you understand him and will lead him to love you more for it。

　　鼓勵他們儘可能多地和你交談。溝通不應該成爲你們二人之間的障礙。男人總是容易害羞，不管你是否發現了這一點，他們的確是這樣，有時他們還會有一些挫敗感。如果他不想說話，就別勉強。這是在考驗你對他的理解，會讓他更加愛你。