如何經營愛情？9個技巧讓ta更愛你
Quora上一位網友提問：愛情中最棒的技巧有哪些？網友們紛紛根據自己的經歷給出了答案。下面9個小技巧或許可以讓你的愛情更甜蜜。
1. Keep a secret running list of stuff you partner wants to do or have.
1. 偷偷記下另一半想要的東西和想做的事情。
Then, on a special occasion or when you have the money, take that special weekend trip, buy that nifty thing.
然後在一個特別的時刻或是當你攢夠錢以後，帶TA來個特別的週末之旅，或是買下那個TA早就想要的小玩意兒。
2. After a fight go for walk and hold hands.
2. 吵架之後牽着手一起散步。
Conversations are easier to have when you’re side-by-side rather than facing one another. Plus, can you really stay mad at someone when their hand is in yours?
肩並肩的談話要比面對面容易得多。而且當你握着對方的手時你怎麼還會生TA的氣呢？
3. Use a silly codeword to ease tension during a fight or tough conversation.
3. 在吵架或爭執時使用一些兩人的暗語來緩解氣氛。
Make a deal that if one of you says your secret defusing code word, you’ll both stop arguing, hug, and find a solution. Chiminychonga!
你們可以約定好，其中一人說到緩和氣氛的祕密暗語比如Chiminychonga，你們就停止爭吵，擁抱並尋找解決方法。
4. Date your longterm partner like you’re still in the honeymoon stage.
4. 跟已是老夫老妻的另一半來一場蜜月般的約會。
Pretend that you’re new to each other that you still have to work hard at being an awesome partner (even though you’ve already landed them).
你們可以假裝剛剛認識對方，所以得非常努力地博取對方好感（即便你們早就在一起了）。
5. When you’re together, give them your full attention.
5. 兩人在一起的時候，要把全部注意力都放在對方身上。
Like don’t even scroll through your Instagram. Make your person feel heard by really listening.
比如不要不停地刷手機，要讓對方感受到你在認真傾聽。
6. Give praise.
6. 不吝嗇你的誇獎。
Tell you’re partner how proud you are they got something done, took a step, faced a challenge, etc., no matter how small.
當你的另一半成功完成某件事、取得某種進步或面對某項挑戰時，要告訴TA你爲TA驕傲，無論大小。
thank you constantly even for small stuff.
7. 即使是小事情也要常說謝謝。
Look, even though they’re minor tasks, no one wants to replace the toilet paper roll or hang up your dumb shirts. Just let your partner know you appreciate their contribution to your little world.
雖然是一些不值得一提的瑣碎事情，但沒人願意爲你換廁紙、掛衣服等等。所以要讓你的另一半知道你感謝TA爲你所做的付出。
8. If you don’t really care about a thing, don’t argue about it.
8. 如果你真的不在意一件事情，就不要因此爭執。
Let little stuff go and only make it a thing if it’s something truly important to you.
不要計較一些小事，除非這件事對你來說真的相當重要。
9. Give empowering gifts.
9. 贈送鼓勵性的禮物
If you partner has always wanted to learn tap dancing or go sky diving or travel solo but is too scared to take the leap or spend the money, show them your support and encouragement by gifting them the experiences they want.
如果你的另一半一直想學跳踢踏舞、想去跳傘或獨自旅遊但又不敢冒險或是怕花錢的話，你就要表示出你的支持和鼓勵，幫助TA完成心願。
