優質男的9大特徵：你男朋友佔幾項？
1. He caters to you.
1、他寵愛你。
He makes sure you're happy day in and day out. He listens to your crazy work stories; he rubs your neck when it's sore; he cooks you dinner on the nights you're feeling sleepy. Caring for you is one of his top priorities, and he does a damn good job of it.
他確保你天天開心。他會聽你吐槽工作中遇到的煩心事；你脖子酸時，他會給你按摩；在你犯困的夜晚他給你做晚飯。他把關愛你作爲衆多首要事情之一，而且他的確把這做得特別好。
2. He wants to hang out with you . . . a LOT.
2、他很想經常跟你一起閒蕩。
If he's texting you every day to see if you'd like to Netflix and chill (I kid, I kid), you mean something to this guy, because, let's face it — they're notorious for spontaneous ghosting.
如果他每天發短信給你，問你是否想要看Netflix的影片放鬆一下（我開玩笑的），那麼你對他而言有一定分量。因爲，讓我們接受現實吧，那些片子可是因重影而飽受人們詬病的。
3. Sex isn't a huge factor for him.
3、性並不是你吸引他的一大因素。
Sure, he likes to do the dirty here and there, but sex isn't the reason he's with you. Far from it. In fact, he wants to do SO much more with you by his side — travel to another country! Sample beer! Have a half-birthday party! The possibilities are endless.
當然他愛四處留情，不過性卻不是他與你在一起的原因。他遠不是爲了這個才與你相守。事實上，他想要你陪在身旁的情景是如此之多，像是去外國旅遊、喝啤酒、提前半年開生日慶祝派對等等。他有數不完的事想與你一同去完成。
4. He keeps you in mind when making major decisions.
4、在做重大決定時，他總想到你。
He doesn't take a new job without talking to you first. Or maybe he's thinking about renting an apartment across the city, but he wants to double check that the commute between your place and his will be OK. Sizable decisions like this have a bearing on your partnership, and he's well aware.
在沒和你商量前，他不會接受一份新的工作。或也許他正打算在這座城市租一間公寓，但他會想先與你確認往返於你們各自的住所是可行的。像這樣在做會影響到你的重大決定時，他清楚地意識到要與你討論。
5. He tells you things he's never told anyone.
5、有些事他只會與你分享。
Late at night — which everybody knows is prime time for life's most meaningful conversations — he tells you things he's never, ever told anyone . . . not even his best bro. FYI: this is the equivalent of a man forking over his heart.
當夜已深，人人都知道進行人生最有意義對話的黃金時間來臨了。他會向你袒露之前他從未向任何人（這其中甚至包括他的好基友）提及的事情。你要知道，這相當於一個男人在向你傾訴他的內心。
6. He doesn't flirt with other girls.
6、他從不與其他女孩調情。
If he has eyes only for you (seriously — just you!), this guy's a different fish. And you don't have to monitor his every move to see if he's hitting up other ladies — call it a woman's instinct or whatever, but you just know ... you know?
如果他只關注你，（真的關注點全放在你身上），那麼這傢伙與衆不同。你便不必時刻監督他的一舉一動，看他是否和其他人瞎搞。把“監督”這個行爲稱爲一種女人的本能還是什麼的吧，不過你就是知道（不需要，因爲他不會出軌）……懂不？
7. He doesn't mind talking about the future.
7、他不介意談論你們的將來。
When you bring up buying a house or getting engaged somewhere down the line, he doesn't flee for the front door. He doesn't have to be 100 percent on board with big relationship steps, but he's totally open to having a real conversation about them.
當你開始提及購置一套房子或是在某個階段與他訂婚時，他不會奪門而出、逃之夭夭。他不必100%地參與到重大提升你們關係的步驟中去，但他一點都不介意與你認真討論這些。
8. He shows you off.
8、他會向其他人驕傲地介紹你。
He totes you around like the flashiest new handbag. His mom, his best friend, and a dozen of his cousins know a heck of a lot about you, because he's head over heels and wants to share it with the world.
他像拎着最時髦的新包包一樣，帶着你四處逛。他的母親、好基友和一票的表兄弟對你知之甚多，因爲他深深地迷戀上你，想要向全世界分享他的這種心情。
9. He loves making you feel special.
9、他喜歡讓你感受到你對他而言是個特殊的存在。
He doesn't just treat you like a queen — he wants to treat you like a queen. Sure, it can feel like a chore in any committed relationship, but for the most part, he's got a smile on his face when he's with you ... because you're the one.
他不僅僅是在像對待女王那樣對待你，（事實上）他就是想將你供作女王來對待。當然，這在任何情侶關係中都是很稀疏平常的。不過最重要的是，你與他在一起時，他的臉上掛着笑容……因爲你就是他深愛的那個她。
