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專家告訴你 你的另一半可能會出軌的前提條件

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Anyone who has been cheated on will likely say they didn't see it coming.

所有被劈過腿的人可能都會說,他們沒想到會發生這樣的事情。

But according to one expert, there is one golden giveaway that infers your partner may well stray.

但是據一名專家表示,有一條“金科玉律”可以顯示你的對象是否會誤入歧途。

Indeed, according to relationship expert India Kang, men or women who earn more money than their partner and don't feel they're given enough respect may be unfaithful.

事實上,據情感專家印第·康表示稱,掙錢比另一半多、但又覺得自己沒有得到足夠尊重的人最可能不忠。

專家告訴你 你的另一半可能會出軌的前提條件

Speaking to FEMAIL, she explained: 'One partner earning more wouldn't necessarily cheat, providing their partner showed them respect, gratitude and appreciation.

在接受《女性》雜誌採訪時,她說道:“一個掙錢多的人並不一定會出軌,只要這個人的對象給予了尊重、感激和讚賞。”

'However, if one partner earns a lot and the other becomes "entitled" or takes their lover for granted or stops being appreciative, the partner is unlikely to stick around.'

“但是如果一個人掙了很多錢,而這個人的對象卻'倚老賣老'、把他們的愛當成理所當然的東西或者不再表示讚賞的時候,這個人可能就不會再堅持這份感情了。”

India notes that it's particularly important to a woman to treat a high-flying man with respect.

印第指出,一個女人對有野心的男子表示尊重顯得尤其重要。

'Respect for men is like oxygen, men crave respect. If you respect him, he will cherish you. Men know it's their role to protect, provide and support. It's the woman's role to receive gracefully, and also to show gratitude and appreciation for his efforts.

“尊重對於男人來說就像氧氣,男人極度渴望得到尊重。如果你尊重他們,他們就會珍惜你。男人知道他們的角色是保護、付出和支持。而女人的角色則是優雅地接受,同時也要表達出對他們努力的感謝和讚賞。”

'For example, if what he provides is never good enough for her, he's unlikely to stick around. He'll take his efforts elsewhere, to someone who will make him feel valued.

“舉例來說,如果男人給予的東西對女人來說永遠都不夠好的話,他就不可能再堅持下去,而會把他的努力放到其他地方,給予一個能夠讓他覺得自己受到重視的人。”