9件小事告訴你 另一半依然瘋狂地愛着你

After decades together, we sometimes forget to show our partner they're still appreciated. But it's the little things that make — and keep — a marriage happy.

在一起幾十年之後，我們有時候會忘記向伴侶證明自己仍然欣賞他們。然而，正是那些小事使我們的婚姻幸福。

We asked our friends and Facebook fans to tell us what their partner still does decades later that keeps them feeling sexy and loved.

我們請朋友和臉書的粉絲告訴我們，幾十年後，他們的伴侶是如何來使他們覺得心動和被愛的?

1. He/she still Holds your hand in public.

1、在公共場所，他/她依然牽着你的手。

Holding hands in public not only shows you're proud to be with your partner, but it also sends a reassuring message to them, proving you really are in everything together.

當衆牽手不僅表明與你的伴侶在一起令你很自豪，也向他們傳遞了一個安心的信息，證明你們真的做什麼事都在一起。

2. He/she puts down what they're doing and makes eye contact with you when you're talking to them.

2、當你和他們交談的時候，他/她會放下手頭的事情，和你作眼神交流。

In our tech-addicted world, this is a tough one, which makes it even more meaningful. "We look AT each other when we speak — and we do NOT roll our eyes (even mentally) because we know that every moment MATTERS," reader Joyce Curtis said.

在我們這個沉迷於科技的時代，這是很難的一件事情，因此也就更有意義。“我們交談的時候看着彼此——我們不會翻白眼(甚至是心理上也沒有)，因爲我們知道每一個瞬間都很重要，”讀者喬伊斯·柯蒂斯說道。

3. He/she hugs you spontaneously.

3、他/她不由自主地擁抱你。

Life can get routine. There's nothing better than knowing your partner still has the hots for you all these years later. Plus, who doesn't appreciate surprises?

生活會歸於平淡。這麼多年之後，知道你的伴侶依然迷戀你，沒有比這更好的事情了。而且，誰不喜歡驚喜呢?

4. He/she still calls you by your pet name.

4、他/她依然叫你的愛稱。

OK, OK, we know not everyone is a fan of this one. But for some, knowing that they're still "sweetheart" or "honey" all these years later is meaningful.

好吧，好吧，我們知道不是每個人都喜歡這一點。但是，對一些人來說，這麼多年之後，知道他們依然是“甜心”或是“寶貝”是很有意義的。

5. He/she always picks up your favorite candy/food from the store.

5、他/她總是從商店裏買回你最喜歡的糖果/食品。

The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. It's also the way to a woman's heart. There's nothing like knowing that Reese's Pieces remind your darling of you so much, they just have to pick them up for you.

抓住一個男人的心先要抓住他的胃。這也是抓住一個女人的心的方法。什麼都比不上知道這一點了，你的愛人看到麗絲巧克力就想到了你，他們一定會爲你買一些。

6. He/she calls from work just to say hello.

6、他/她在工作的時候打來電話只是爲了向你問好。

There's no better way to say, "I'm thinking about you."

“我在想你”，沒有比這更好的方式了。

7. He/she still says good morning or good night.

7、他/她仍然對你說早上好或晚安。

Early in a relationship, waking up next to your bed buddy and falling asleep in his or her arms can be one of the most exhilarating things ever. If your spouse still makes an effort to do this — it's their way of telling you, there's no one they'd rather be with.

在戀愛初期，在你的伴侶旁醒來並在他或她的懷抱中入睡永遠都是最令人愉快的事情了。如果你的配偶依然努力做這些，那麼這是他們用自己的方式告訴你，沒有人會讓他們如此想與之共度的了。

8. He/she compliments the same recipe you've been serving up for years and still devours it like it's the first time they're having it.

8、這麼多年你一直準備相同的飯菜，他/她也一直稱讚你，並且依然像第一次吃到時那樣狼吞虎嚥。

Appreciation is oh-so-important in any relationship. It also doesn't hurt if they brag about your cooking.

在任何人際關係中，欣賞都非常重要。如果他們炫耀你的廚藝，那也沒什麼不好。

9. He/she lets you have the remote and choose what the two of you are watching.

9、他/她讓你拿着遙控器來選擇你們兩個要觀看的節目。

Congratulations! You’ve officially won the relationship lottery.

恭喜!你們正式贏得了戀愛彩票。