這些簡單易做的小事會讓你的另一半無比開心
Chances are the moments that make youappreciate your relationship aren’t grand romantic gestures. It’s the littlemoments in a relationship that mean the most, says Jennifer Freed, Ph.D., arelationship and family therapist. For ideas, we turned to seven women who arehappy in their long-term relationships. Here’s the number one thing theirpartners do to make them swoon.
很有可能那些你欣賞的戀情時刻並不是美好的浪漫。感情和家庭治療師珍妮弗·弗雷德博士說道，戀情中最細微的時刻往往是最有意義的時刻。爲了尋求更多的看法，我們對7位滿足於長期戀情的女士進行了採訪。下列這些另一半做的事情最讓她們感到開心。
LEAVE HER NOTES
給她留紙條
“My husband and I have been married for more than five years anddated for six years before that. You would think that our relationship wouldget boring by now, but he reminds me he loves me by writing love notes andputting them in my lunch bag each day. I usually make my lunch before going tobed and somehow he always sneaks it in.” —Denise W., 38
“我丈夫和我已經結婚5年多了，婚前我們約會了6年。可能你會覺得我們的關係應該已處於無聊階段，但事實上他每天都會給我寫愛的小紙條，然後將紙條貼在我的午餐袋上，來向我表達愛意。每晚上牀前我都會把第二天的午餐備好，但他總能找機會在午餐袋上貼好紙條。”——Denise W，38歲
MAKE HER LAUGH
讓她笑
“I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years, and I still get a goodlaugh from the videos he sends me of himself via Snapchat. And it’s not evenlike he’s trying to make me laugh. I just love him so much that I crack up outof adoration.”
“我和男朋友在一起兩年了，但他通過閱後即焚軟件發給我的視頻仍會讓我大笑不止。甚至他還沒有放大招。我太愛他了，我是因爲愛他才笑得那麼開心。”
LISTEN TO HER
“When something is bothering me, my boyfriend never fails to give mehis full attention. He puts his cellphone down and actively listens to mespeak. That shows me how much he cares about me.
“當我有煩心事時，我男朋友總是全神貫注的聽我說話。他會把手機放在一邊，然後認真聆聽。這讓我知道他對我的關心。”
GIVE HER PERSONAL SPACE
給她私人空間
“My boyfriend and I just started living together after a year ofdating. It’s hard to go from living alone to living with another person,especially since our new apartment is tiny. When I just need some space, Inever have to ask for it. He always senses it and goes out for a walk. I knowthat living together will just keep getting easier.”
“約會一年後，男朋友和我決定同居。從一個人生活到和他人同居是一件很困難的事情，尤其當你們的新公寓還是很小的時候。當我需要一些空間時，我從未要求，但他總能感覺到，然後會出門散步給我空間。我知道同居會越來越順利的。”
LEAVE THE TOILET SEAT DOWN
放下馬桶蓋
“My boyfriend lives with three guys and reminds them to keep thetoilet seat down when I’m over. It makes me laugh because I never asked him todo that, but he just goes above and beyond to make me feel comfortable.”
“我男朋友和3個男生住在一起，每當我過去的時候，他都會提醒其他男生把馬桶蓋放下。知道這點我十分開心，因爲我從未要求他這樣做，但他這種處處爲我考慮的行爲讓我十分舒心。”
