首次約會 女生最擔心什麼?

Have you ever been out on a date with a woman and gotten the feeling she’s not listening to anything you’re saying? Trust me, she’s trying very hard to focus on the words coming out of your mouth. However she’s much more preoccupied by all the thoughts running through her head. She’s ten steps ahead of you and will most likely spend the entire date trying to predict the answers to the following questions.
你有沒有試過和女孩子出去約會，卻發現她似乎沒有在聽你說話？相信我她其實有很努力的讓自己專心聽你說話。但是她腦子裏的思緒讓她實在不得不分心。其實她比你想得遠多了，整場約會中她都會想得到以下幾個問題的答案。

Women start stressing about this as soon as you both sit down at the table. Will you be offended if she doesn’t offer to pay or will you be offended if she does do the slow-motion “let me get my wallet” move? Put her fears to rest by telling her to order anything she wants because this meal is on you.
從你倆一坐下，女人就開始緊張兮兮的了。如果她不付帳的話，你會不會不高興？如果她“掏錢包”的動作做慢了你會不會不爽？別讓她緊張兮兮的了，直接告訴她點自己喜歡吃的東西吧，因爲這一餐你買單。

Everything is going super great on the date. However, she’s debating if you expect to come home with her or if you think she’s a giant slut for even thinking that. Make your intentions clear from the outset by subtly sliding a handful of condoms across the table and mouthing “later.”
這場約會一切都進行得如此完美。然而她腦子裏卻在就接你會不會想和她回家？或者如果知道她在想這些會不會覺得她是色女一枚？這個時候你就需要運用合適的行爲動作來暗示她一會兒要去幹什麼了。

You’re funny, charming, and good-looking in the candle light. She’s trying to decide if she wants to date you. Solve this problem by making her fall in love with you immediately. Instant love can generally be created by making sure she has endless drink refills.
約會的燭光下，帥氣的你表現得既幽默又迷人。她心裏在想的是以後要不要和你繼續交往。讓她放下這個疑慮的最好方法就是讓她立馬愛上你。她看沒看上你？看看她是不是猛灌自己酒就知道啦。

As she rambles on about co-worker drama and its relationship to problems with her mother, she’s simultaneously asking herself what the fuck she is talking about. She wants to make a good impression — and in an attempt to do so continually finds herself telling stories with no end. Save her the embarrassment by constantly interrupting with your own semi-related stories.
當她在和你狂侃海談自己同事和老媽關係的時候，她自己心裏肯定在臭罵自己我到底在跟他說什麼呀。她想給你留下一個好印象，卻發現自己說起話來沒完沒了。這個時候你就該用你的糗事來給她解圍嘍。

Whether you went on this date looking for a girlfriend or looking for a one-night stand, you know exactly what you want. Now she’s attempting to interpret what you want by over analyzing everything you say. Stop making her read between the lines by spelling it out for her — “my friends dared my $100 to ask you on a date, after this I will never see you again.”
不管你和她約會的目的是真心找女朋友還是隻想一夜情，你對自己的目的相當清楚。而她則要通過你的言行舉止來分析你此次約會的目的到底是什麼。不要讓她從你的言行舉止中得出“我朋友跟我打賭100美元你會跟我約會，這次之後我們就不要見面了”的結論。

She left her house with perfectly straight hair and smudge-free make-up. However you’re now halfway done with your ribs dinner and she’s stressing about what’s in her teeth and how to get that lump of sauce out of her hair without you noticing. Make her feel more comfortable by smearing sauce all over yourself to the point that you’re asked to leave the restaurant for indecent behavior.
她出門的時候把頭髮梳得倍直垂順，打扮乾淨清新。但是你們的排骨餐吃到一半，她肯定在糾結牙齒裏卡進去的東西，怎麼在你不注意的情況下把不小心弄到頭髮上的小殘渣弄掉。這個時候你就可以多弄點食物殘渣到自己身上，然後說要去洗手間整理儀容來幫她結尾。

Women get off on judging each other, especially their very own friends. Even if she is falling madly in love with you, she’s still thinking about what her friends will say. Assure her that her friends will love you by being extra-good-looking, extra-funny, extra-nice, and extra-rich.
女人天性喜歡品論別人，特別是評論自己的好朋友。不論她愛你愛得有多深，她還是會考慮自己閨蜜們對你們這段感情怎麼看。用你超迷人的外表，超強的幽默感，超紳士的舉止和非一般的財力告訴她，她的朋友們會喜歡你的。