商務禮節美語第201期:Faux Pas 失禮(上)

中國僱員Kathy憂心忡忡地去找美國同事Mark請教。

K: Hey you mind if I ask you a couple of questions?

Mark: No problem, I've got time.

K: Great! Well, I'm going to Seattle for half a year. I'm attending a course at a university and I'll be doing some research as well.

Mark: Sounds like fun!

K: Yes. But I'm really worried that I don't understand American culture well enough. You know how here in China we have lots of little things that are considered if I do something wrong in America? I'd be so embarrassed if that happened!

原來，Kathy要去西雅圖進修半年，但是擔心自己對美國文化和風土人情瞭解不夠，會在小事情上鬧笑話，讓自己難堪，embarrassed。

Mark: Ah, I see! Actually, we have a great word in English that describes making a cultural 's called a "faux pas" and it's actually originally a French term.

K: So I should say I want to avoid any cultural "faux pas?"

Mark: That's correct. You know, actually you shouldn't worry too much. America is a pretty relaxed country, but there are a couple things you should be aware of.

K: Oh? Such as?

Mark說，這種文化上的失誤叫faux pas。 Faux pas是從法語來的。前面可以用動詞avoid避免或是commit犯下。Mark安慰Cathy說，美國是一個很隨便的國家，American is a pretty relaxed country. 不過還是有些地方需要注意。Such as? 比如說呢？

Mark: Americans - and western people in general - can be very sensitive about smells.

K: I should be careful after eating spicy foods, right?

Mark: Yep. Things like garlic or various Chinese dishes can have a strong smell. It's best to chew gum or use a breath freshener.

K: That's a good thing to remember. How about when I visit a friend's home? What should I bring?

Mark說，西方人對氣味非常敏感，中國人喜歡吃的大蒜等食物，都會留下十分濃重的味道，It's best to chew gum or use a breath freshener. 所以最好嚼嚼口香糖，設法去去嘴裏的味兒。去朋友家作客，帶點兒什麼呢？

Mark: If you and your guest drink alcohol, it's always nice to bring a bottle of wine. If wine is a problem, you could try fruit or some kind of desert.

K: But should it be an expensive gift?

Mark: No, the price is not so important. Just bring something to show you care about your hosts and are grateful for their invitation.

如果賓主雙方都喝酒的話，帶瓶葡萄酒絕對沒錯，否則的話，可以考慮帶點水果或是甜點。禮物不一定要非常貴重，能夠表達對主人的關心和對邀請的感激就可以了。